Top Subs un huh

1. POOR-ME SUB:
This "sub" always has something going wrong in her life. Of course, it is never her fault..she is always being played upon and victimized by others. If only she found the *perfect* dom, her life would be problem-free and forever-blissful.


2. JUST-DO-ME SUB:
This "sub" just wants to be beaten. It doesn't really matter by who, or what..as long as they can feel the lash. Frequently misbehaving on purpose, this sub can drive a dom *crazy*.

3. BARBIE-SUB:
This "sub" just likes the way she looks in leather fashions. She is afraid of the whip, and has never seen a clamp in her life. Her favorite store is "Dream Dresser", and her whole paycheck is spent there

4. HE-HURT-ME SUB:
This "sub", without any negotiations, talk of limits or safewords, rushes out to a country cabin to to play with a dom she met 2 days ago online. After letting him tie her up and whip her, she decides he is a menace to society, and can't wait to tell all her "sub" friends he is a "BAD dom".

5. I-JUST-NEED-A-MAN SUB:
This "sub", after exhausting all her singles bars, decides that the D/s world would be a good place to meet a *man*. she really has no interest in D/s, she just needs someone to spend the rest of her life with. She is a close relative of POOR-ME SUB. Amazingly, when she "gets her dom", she suddenly looses interest in any type of sex.

6. NO-ONE-CAN-TOP-ME SUB:
This "sub" longs to submit, yet claims no dom is strong enough to top her. Some say she is really just a domme in disguise.

7. SUBMISSION IS THE GREATEST GIFT Submissive.
This submissive has stars in her eyes and naivity in her heart. She swoons at the mere thought of a dom, any dom, asking her to pass the salt. She writes her dom's name in the corner of her notebook with little hearts and flowers around it. She declares that there is no better way to love than through submission, and that d/s is a "better" and "higher" manner of loving than anything a silly old vanilla person might do. She lives on an emotional roller-coaster, sentimental enough to cry when seeing a long-distance phone company commercial.

Top Doms uh huh

1. The 'I Am Dom Hear Me Roar' Dom:
All shiny new leather wear, with a belt full of toys (just bought at Jack's Whip-O-Rama). Of *course* he knows what to do! He read SM101...and even watched Exit To Eden three whole times!
2. The 'I Just Wanna Get Laid' Dom:
Roams the halls of Alt sending private IMs to the ladies telling them "On your knees! I am a Dom and U R my slave!". When he gets irate IMs back from the Domme he just sent to by mistake (what, read a profile? you *must* be kidding, right?),
3. The 'Dungeon Slut' Dom:
Has a new 'lady love' each day (sometimes 2 or 3 a day). He swears each time that *this* one is his 'eternal true love'....at least for the next two hours.
4. The 'Psycho-Stalker' Dom:
Wants to know *exactly* what you do...every minute of the day and night. Insists on BCCs of all sent mail, and Forwards of all read mail, plus access to your account to check up on you. Do you get the feeling that someone is watching you? With this one, you're probably right.
5. The 'I Just Wanna Be Your *Friend*' Dom:
Offers to guide you and protect you....you innocent sweet thing you. Oh, those other 10 subs? Just friends. Really.
6. The 'Of Course Im Dom...Uh Oh My Wife Is Home Gotta Run' Dom:
Warning signs: Picks 'no response' on marital status in profile. "No honey you can't call me at home...call my voice mail instead". Often disappears in the middle of a hot n heavy cyber session...uses an excuse like 'my power went out' when asked about it. "Of *course* Im not married!"
7. The 'Im Not *That* Type Of Dom' Dom:
Squeaky-clean image. The type of Dom that everyone *knows* is a good guy. He would never do something less than up-front and honorable. Uh-huh.
8. The 'Tom Cruise' Dom:
He's young, rich, handsome and perfect....until you meet him in person. Then you find out that the 'Tom Cruise look-alike' you've been subbing to is 5'4", 400 lbs, bald, 48 years old, and living with his elderly mother. (Oh yeah... and he works as a clerk at 7-11...not as a CEO of a 'major corp').
9. The 'Alex I'd Like to Buy a Clue For $200' Dom:
Ok, now you've got a sub....now what?
10. The 'I Don't Have A Sub Bone In My Body' Dom:
Really a bottom at heart, just refuses to admit it...even to himself.

You Ask How Far is Heaven

Life is so complicated, the older I get the more shades of gray there are, than the boldness of just black and white. My Love, Jim, I had met quite accidentally online. We chatted at great length that first night we met. I found him intoxicating, interesting, magnetic.
I awoke the next morning and checked my computer immediately to see if he had indeed sent a message. He had. We went on to continue chatting, eventually on the phone, then the ultimate - in person. We were so honest with each other prior to meeting. We shared all sorts of intimacies of our lives with each other. We both felt that honesty was so important.
He knew my life was not my own and he had commitments in his life also, I was raising an 18 year old that was not mine, and taking care of a disabled person and working 3 jobs.....These circumstances alone would not have made for a perfect relationship, however, our bond, our connection, did. After meeting Jim the first time, it was instantaneous - actually I already loved him before I even met him. From that point on we were together as much as time would allow us......weather it be online...on phone...or in person .Our visits both on the phone and online and more importantly in person were filled with passion and love - so many memories.
Our First Meeting was incredibule, I was extremly shy and could barely look at him, but my heart filled with such love with every word that came from him........every touch from him....made me love him all the more.
I sometime wonder.....how?? How can I love someone as I love him, swore i never would, but i also know without him in my life I am nothing but a shell of a person...he puts the beat in my heart.......and he makes the blood run thru my veins.
You ask......How far is heaven...........Heaven is in His arms, I love you Jim........now and forever,
Robin


That was 2 years ago almost and even tho life gets in the way at times with work and illnesses and things ~~smiles~~ We are living together now and very happy and heaven is still in his arms

A Master

- A Man who displays sensitivity will be a Master who is sensitive to you.
-A Man who displays humility will be a Master who will show you respect.
-A Man who is not afraid to cry will be a Master who understands your tears.
-A Man who is quiet will be a Master who will hear your quietest whisper,
-A Man who knows fear will be a Master who will not leave you to face yours alone.
-A Man who will listen to a child will be a Master who will always work to understand your words.
-A Man who can stand alone will be a Master who will not crush you under His weight.
-A Man who controls Himself with ease will be a Master with the ability to control you in the same way.
-A Man who does not have to prove His point will be a Master with many worthwhile points to share.
-A Man who never makes demands will be a Master who treasures anything you give.
-A Man who doesn't run after you will be a Master you will never need to run away from.
-A Man who is calm will be a Master who can weather your storms.
-A Man who has walked the path to peace will be a Master able to guide you along that path.
-A Man who does not shout will be a Master who will never deafen you.
-A Man who knows Himself will be a Master who will have time to know you.
-A Man with an open mind will be a Master who never stops learning.
-A Man who never stops learning will be a Master who never stops growing.
-A Man who always seeks to be the best He can be for you is the only Man truly worthy of being called your Master.

Just a reminder

Some of these things I have posted on other blogs and discussion boards and some I have not, So If you read anything here that you have already read, I am sorry, I am just putting it all out there again for those that haven't read it


~~Peach~~

Playing the Good Girl Can Be Exhausting

Many of us will continue in our ‘good girl’ roles, being the ultimate submissive, and letting the Dominant control the play for as long as we can handle. However, we are human. And occasionally, we do begin to feel neglected in some cases. And while we, above all, respect your time, your limits, your needs, we also must respect our own, and try to get them met without showing the Dominant any true disrespect. It’s at those times, when even the best of submissives will take up the brat role, as an attempt to show the Dominant how they feel, without actually having to say it. It’s hard for us, as submissives, to complain, to whine. We are trained to be supportive, to share your feelings, and our own. It somehow doesn’t seem right to come out and say "HEY YOU. Stop talking about your ex wife for a minute and ask me if I need an ass
whipping, will ya?" As submissives, we revel in the joy that we feel when you share your problems with us. We celebrate the fact we can help you work through the rough spots of your life. We enjoy the time we spend with you, no matter what we may be doing in that time. However, sometimes we are allowed to be selfish. And it’s at those times, that the most respectful of submissives will show a streak of brattiness you never knew existed, rather than hurt your feelings by complaining directly to the problem.

Learning to read our brattiness is an art form. We don’t expect you to do it over night, and we certainly don’t expect you to put up with it. Just try and understand us, and love us for our continued communication with you, no matter what form that communication comes in.

My Views on Submission

True submission comes from deep within the soul.
It travels through us, pausing at the heart,
where it then emerges through our physical
body and mind to our Dominant. It is also my
belief, that you must love yourself first before you
can serve another.


Without trust, honor and integrity, you are wearing
a mask. While this mask may disguise you from others
it is your true reflection you must face under the mask.
Trust... is stronger than any rope or chain.


Submission is not something a Dominant can take.
It must be given or there can be no surrender.
It is with this frame of thinking that a submissive
should always remember how valuable her gift is.