Playing the Good Girl Can Be Exhausting

Many of us will continue in our ‘good girl’ roles, being the ultimate submissive, and letting the Dominant control the play for as long as we can handle. However, we are human. And occasionally, we do begin to feel neglected in some cases. And while we, above all, respect your time, your limits, your needs, we also must respect our own, and try to get them met without showing the Dominant any true disrespect. It’s at those times, when even the best of submissives will take up the brat role, as an attempt to show the Dominant how they feel, without actually having to say it. It’s hard for us, as submissives, to complain, to whine. We are trained to be supportive, to share your feelings, and our own. It somehow doesn’t seem right to come out and say "HEY YOU. Stop talking about your ex wife for a minute and ask me if I need an ass
whipping, will ya?" As submissives, we revel in the joy that we feel when you share your problems with us. We celebrate the fact we can help you work through the rough spots of your life. We enjoy the time we spend with you, no matter what we may be doing in that time. However, sometimes we are allowed to be selfish. And it’s at those times, that the most respectful of submissives will show a streak of brattiness you never knew existed, rather than hurt your feelings by complaining directly to the problem.

Learning to read our brattiness is an art form. We don’t expect you to do it over night, and we certainly don’t expect you to put up with it. Just try and understand us, and love us for our continued communication with you, no matter what form that communication comes in.